Every girl in the world want it to be perfect, i guarantee you. Even a little girl knew it, they use their imagination to set everything perfectly on their mind, how they want it to be later in the future.
A perfect wedding. Let us think about it a little bit further
Well it must be held with absolutely the right one, the right guy, who i surely do understand the reason why i choose him and why i want him, well he must be a gift, a special gift from God to me
I want it to be simple yet so amazing, unforgettable on its own way, i want it to be the day that we share the love that we have, not just 'the day that i say i do'.
Pastel colors will be great, or maybe gold and red, or carnival for the theme. Sometimes i really do think about something weird like throw a wedding party in an unique theme like carnival or fairytale or something like all of those thing, you get it?
And i want to feel like a princess just for one day, and he will be the prince of course, we will do the slow-dance all night long instead of shaking hands and smile and waving to the guests. We will have fun together. And i want him to sing a special song, it doesn't have to be a love-song, it could be our favorite or maybe it has our inside joke, well i know its too mainstream
Getting married in a white-sanded beach would be amazing, but once again, it doesn't matter where is it, as long as I'm with the right guy.
I don't want a crown with diamonds or a tiara, wild-flowers on my head would be nice.
And i want to walk to the isle with a really good backsound and please not an organ, it sounds like death-people and black. A band or an acoustic will be okay, and we will make a playlist for that day! I'm begging you my future, please have a good music-taste
And i want a lot of flowers with pastel color for the decorate and for the guests to take home. And a lot of sweet-treats of course, cupcakes with cute things on it, apple-candies, chocolate and a lot more of sweet things to show them how nice our love is, how sweet the day must be
And i want to decorate the place with a lot of pictures of memories between me and him, me and my friends, he and his, families, childhood, our first date and stuffs like that
And of course, my kind of perfect wedding is the one who has the whole family and God's blessings on it.
You might found all of these thing sounds cheesy but you guys should try it, playing with your imagination is the best thing a human could do in the end of the day besides be grateful for every little thing.
Sunday, January 26, 2014
Friday, January 24, 2014
Day 7 : Perfect Date
My kind of ideal perfect date would be weird because I'm that type of girl who prefer mcdonalds than an expensive restaurant.
Maybe my kind of perfect day would be, well i can't decide which is the best one so here it is:
1. A day spent with that guy without trying to be comfortable, we will get lost to somewhere we don't know, taking a lot of weird pictures, do absurd things in public, eat lunch and dinner when we started to feel hungry and we don't care where it is, we will be using train, i don't know why but i like it.
2. Movie marathon in a snuggle weather, we can watch a lot of movies till i got bored to death, eat a lot of chocolate, chips and soft drinks. And then we can cook lunch together and have lunch while watching the movies. And we could talk about a lot of nonsense things too
3. Unexpected date, it's like, "i miss you, can you pick me up?" and then we could hanging out together, doing nothing or just eat in a restaurant and talk for hours.
4. Going to beach, well i know its kinda shitty but, i want to know what is it feels like, don't judge
Maybe that's all, i don't want a lot from guys, because till now i believe that if i found the right guy, i don't need an amazing date or something like that, as long as i know that I'm loved and i love him, that would be just fine and we don't have to try to make things work out.
And of course giving me my favorite food is purrrrrfect. Give me my fav one and i will love you forever.
Maybe my kind of perfect day would be, well i can't decide which is the best one so here it is:
1. A day spent with that guy without trying to be comfortable, we will get lost to somewhere we don't know, taking a lot of weird pictures, do absurd things in public, eat lunch and dinner when we started to feel hungry and we don't care where it is, we will be using train, i don't know why but i like it.
2. Movie marathon in a snuggle weather, we can watch a lot of movies till i got bored to death, eat a lot of chocolate, chips and soft drinks. And then we can cook lunch together and have lunch while watching the movies. And we could talk about a lot of nonsense things too
3. Unexpected date, it's like, "i miss you, can you pick me up?" and then we could hanging out together, doing nothing or just eat in a restaurant and talk for hours.
4. Going to beach, well i know its kinda shitty but, i want to know what is it feels like, don't judge
Maybe that's all, i don't want a lot from guys, because till now i believe that if i found the right guy, i don't need an amazing date or something like that, as long as i know that I'm loved and i love him, that would be just fine and we don't have to try to make things work out.
And of course giving me my favorite food is purrrrrfect. Give me my fav one and i will love you forever.
Thursday, January 23, 2014
Day 6: Something that I miss
I miss a lot of things.
I miss those good old days back in my childhood. Yes, most of all, I miss my childhood.
I miss it when every damn thing is alright and i have nothing to worry about, i miss those days when i cried for unnecessary things like my brother took my blanket or it's just because my mom leave without told me a thing.
I miss being a careless kid who doesn't care about how good i look, and we're all friends, and i could be anything i want without being judged. Like, look at things nowadays, its like whatever you do there is always someone who giving a damn about it and talk things about you. And whatever you do there is always someone who did it better than you and admit it, you care about it, you feel like you can't.
I'm trying to not to care, but hey people, i have feelings too.
I miss those time when everything was just fine and people were nice, but everything turned out to be so mean and trying to hit me down.
And i miss you guys, who has passed away and meet God way more too earlier. We will meet again later, not now, aren't you guys want to see me being a doctor first?
Hope you guys laying in peace and full of happiness. You're all in a better place right now, believe me.
As the time goes by and i see people pass me by, I'm feeling old. Even tho, i know I'm not. But its just, I'm not that innocent little girl anymore, i started to understand things that people said to each other, things that i don't even have a clue what the hell is it back in those old days.
I miss those good old days back in my childhood. Yes, most of all, I miss my childhood.
I miss it when every damn thing is alright and i have nothing to worry about, i miss those days when i cried for unnecessary things like my brother took my blanket or it's just because my mom leave without told me a thing.
I miss being a careless kid who doesn't care about how good i look, and we're all friends, and i could be anything i want without being judged. Like, look at things nowadays, its like whatever you do there is always someone who giving a damn about it and talk things about you. And whatever you do there is always someone who did it better than you and admit it, you care about it, you feel like you can't.
I'm trying to not to care, but hey people, i have feelings too.
I miss those time when everything was just fine and people were nice, but everything turned out to be so mean and trying to hit me down.
And i miss you guys, who has passed away and meet God way more too earlier. We will meet again later, not now, aren't you guys want to see me being a doctor first?
Hope you guys laying in peace and full of happiness. You're all in a better place right now, believe me.
As the time goes by and i see people pass me by, I'm feeling old. Even tho, i know I'm not. But its just, I'm not that innocent little girl anymore, i started to understand things that people said to each other, things that i don't even have a clue what the hell is it back in those old days.
Wednesday, January 22, 2014
Day 5: Special Dinner
For the fifth day, we are talking about special dinner and if i could invite 10 person who would they be? And it is the hardest thing to answer so far.
Im kinda having this hard time to believe in people, its like whenever i trust people, its like the world tell me the truth, no lol wrong person, dear. Well, i just want to be happy and giving people they rights to have chance but it seems like they are the one who throw it away, its all yours, people
Trust is something hard to build, kay people. Once you lose it, you will lose it all. So please
But still, time goes on and on, that kind of 10 person who would be invited are:
1-3. My family which means including my mom, dad and brother. They are always there, I'm not me without their presence, they are always included and you don't have to ask first.
4. My grand mom from my mother side. She is so amazing, I'm telling you, she is the funniest grandma alive. Every trip that has her on it will be great in so many ways. You will not stop and you cannot stop laugh.
5. If i could bring my whole family i would. Seriously.
6. My best friends, and they are like more than 10. so, the heck should i do
7. This biatch (jk, i love you sel, you know it right) she is my cousin and my friends for life, we've know each other since we're just a baby.
She is ALWAYS on the left side, weird coincidence, and do not ask why
8-9. My guys, Ariel and Rico. They are also my cousin. How i miss you guys
10. A lot more friends or family, seriously, i can't decide it.
And this list could be changed whenever i want to, so you guys choose do you want to stay or leave
But for everyone that has took or is taking a part on my life, i don't really care when, i just want you guys to know that whatever you has done or you are doing in my life, it would mean something and so much to me, i can tell you. Thankyou for your kindness and thank you for taking a part, i love you guys more than you will ever know!!!!!!!
Please do not get tired of me, i love you guys, please be patient, I'm trying, kay
Im kinda having this hard time to believe in people, its like whenever i trust people, its like the world tell me the truth, no lol wrong person, dear. Well, i just want to be happy and giving people they rights to have chance but it seems like they are the one who throw it away, its all yours, people
Trust is something hard to build, kay people. Once you lose it, you will lose it all. So please
But still, time goes on and on, that kind of 10 person who would be invited are:
1-3. My family which means including my mom, dad and brother. They are always there, I'm not me without their presence, they are always included and you don't have to ask first.
4. My grand mom from my mother side. She is so amazing, I'm telling you, she is the funniest grandma alive. Every trip that has her on it will be great in so many ways. You will not stop and you cannot stop laugh.
5. If i could bring my whole family i would. Seriously.
6. My best friends, and they are like more than 10. so, the heck should i do
7. This biatch (jk, i love you sel, you know it right) she is my cousin and my friends for life, we've know each other since we're just a baby.
She is ALWAYS on the left side, weird coincidence, and do not ask why
8-9. My guys, Ariel and Rico. They are also my cousin. How i miss you guys
And this list could be changed whenever i want to, so you guys choose do you want to stay or leave
But for everyone that has took or is taking a part on my life, i don't really care when, i just want you guys to know that whatever you has done or you are doing in my life, it would mean something and so much to me, i can tell you. Thankyou for your kindness and thank you for taking a part, i love you guys more than you will ever know!!!!!!!
Please do not get tired of me, i love you guys, please be patient, I'm trying, kay
Tuesday, January 21, 2014
Day 4 : Something that make me feels better
Silence. It is gold, rare, you hardly find it but you can have it once you knew how, and it is also a killer. I need it when i started to get mad, but i can't stand it when I'm happy, ya feel me
A hot vanilla milk helps too. It's so nice, i cant't help myself to not to smile because of it.
Seeing someone i love smile, especially, because of me, like it's the best feeling in the world, isn't it?
A really big-warm-long hug, don't need any reason, just a hug would help
Having someone to tell you every time you need it that everything is gonna be just fine and turn out to be alright the way it used to be, even tho you don't believe it, but you need it just to make you feel stronger than before.
Laugh. You cannot deny it. Whenever i get sad and someone unexpectedly make me laugh, i thank God for that person. It feels so nice to know that i could still have fun and laugh even tho something is trying to drag me down.
And don't forget music, I don't know how to live my life without it, it saves people's life.
And here is some good crap that would help,
A good company. Of course.
The sims 3.
A hot or cold ice tea, you choose.
Talking to people you trust whole-heartedly.
Write about your feelings, or read a good book if you like to read.
Sing your playlist on the top of your lungs and not giving a damn to anything.
Take a hot bath.
Watch a good movie, maybe a movie-marathon.
Chocolate or your fav foods. Trust me, this is the best.
And the last thing that you can do is just pray and sleep. It works like a magic trick.
A hot vanilla milk helps too. It's so nice, i cant't help myself to not to smile because of it.
Seeing someone i love smile, especially, because of me, like it's the best feeling in the world, isn't it?
A really big-warm-long hug, don't need any reason, just a hug would help
Having someone to tell you every time you need it that everything is gonna be just fine and turn out to be alright the way it used to be, even tho you don't believe it, but you need it just to make you feel stronger than before.
Laugh. You cannot deny it. Whenever i get sad and someone unexpectedly make me laugh, i thank God for that person. It feels so nice to know that i could still have fun and laugh even tho something is trying to drag me down.
And don't forget music, I don't know how to live my life without it, it saves people's life.
And here is some good crap that would help,
A good company. Of course.
The sims 3.
A hot or cold ice tea, you choose.
Talking to people you trust whole-heartedly.
Write about your feelings, or read a good book if you like to read.
Sing your playlist on the top of your lungs and not giving a damn to anything.
Take a hot bath.
Watch a good movie, maybe a movie-marathon.
Chocolate or your fav foods. Trust me, this is the best.
And the last thing that you can do is just pray and sleep. It works like a magic trick.
Friday, January 17, 2014
Day 3: A list of my favs
You will never know how much a girl can love, so i have so much things on my 'favorite' list.
Here we go:
1. Rain, snuggle weather not the storm.
2. Things that smells like an apple, i just love it tho i don't know why
3. Cheese! obviously, definitely yasss
4. I don't really get it why but I'm kinda obsessed with babies and puppies. In the future i want to raise a baby with a puppy at the same time if i could, so they could be bestfriends like for life.
5. Oldies. I grow with oldies so it is like a small part of my life
6. Seeing someone singing or playing acoustic music.
7. Listening to Mocca, Buble, Mymp
8. Spongebob Squarepants and Patrick Star
9. Definitely not math, chemistry and physics
10. Sleeping for like 10 hours or more
11. Writing, read a good book, blogging, it helps me get through my holiday
12. Michael Buble, Sungha Jung, Eric Clapton
13. My home
14. Small details
15. A cup of tea
16. Strawberry or vanilla milk. They are the best.
17. Christmas-break
18. Fairytales, like, who doesn't?
19. Laughing at inappropriate times and laughing till i got tears in my eyes. I can't help it
20. Doing nothing
Here we go:
1. Rain, snuggle weather not the storm.
2. Things that smells like an apple, i just love it tho i don't know why
3. Cheese! obviously, definitely yasss
4. I don't really get it why but I'm kinda obsessed with babies and puppies. In the future i want to raise a baby with a puppy at the same time if i could, so they could be bestfriends like for life.
5. Oldies. I grow with oldies so it is like a small part of my life
6. Seeing someone singing or playing acoustic music.
7. Listening to Mocca, Buble, Mymp
8. Spongebob Squarepants and Patrick Star
9. Definitely not math, chemistry and physics
10. Sleeping for like 10 hours or more
11. Writing, read a good book, blogging, it helps me get through my holiday
12. Michael Buble, Sungha Jung, Eric Clapton
13. My home
14. Small details
15. A cup of tea
16. Strawberry or vanilla milk. They are the best.
17. Christmas-break
18. Fairytales, like, who doesn't?
19. Laughing at inappropriate times and laughing till i got tears in my eyes. I can't help it
20. Doing nothing
Thursday, January 16, 2014
Day 2: Something that I would never change
Unfortunately that 'something that i would never change' is not about a moment or a person, it is something that i would never change from my own self.
Well I'm just a person and i am a fool, and sometimes i hate myself, there is so much thing that i'd really like to change about myself, but maybe there is a thing that is good about me
I would like to keep my sense of humor, and my sarcasm.
Well if you know what i mean. My sense of humor is dominated with my sarcasm, so, you believe me, it is the best thing you will ever know *evil laugh*
It helps me a lot. It helps me get through this friggin-hard life and my high school life. I laugh at every damn thing even tho sometimes it is the thing that hurts me. And its like I'm living my life because I'm breathing with sarcasm. I just will spontaneously answer all the things with whatever that pass by my brain, so i don't really get offended easily and my whole life be like #nooffense but sometimes i mean it.
People will just talk about you like all the time and there is always someone who doesn't like you and just so you know, you will get hurt physically and emotionally if you keep it on your mind and heart.
So just don't take things too seriously. It kills people.
So, stay alive, peeps
Well I'm just a person and i am a fool, and sometimes i hate myself, there is so much thing that i'd really like to change about myself, but maybe there is a thing that is good about me
I would like to keep my sense of humor, and my sarcasm.
Well if you know what i mean. My sense of humor is dominated with my sarcasm, so, you believe me, it is the best thing you will ever know *evil laugh*
It helps me a lot. It helps me get through this friggin-hard life and my high school life. I laugh at every damn thing even tho sometimes it is the thing that hurts me. And its like I'm living my life because I'm breathing with sarcasm. I just will spontaneously answer all the things with whatever that pass by my brain, so i don't really get offended easily and my whole life be like #nooffense but sometimes i mean it.
People will just talk about you like all the time and there is always someone who doesn't like you and just so you know, you will get hurt physically and emotionally if you keep it on your mind and heart.
So just don't take things too seriously. It kills people.
So, stay alive, peeps
Wednesday, January 15, 2014
Day 1: Selfie and Fun-facts
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I know, i'm so sorry about this crappy selfie, ignore my face. Im not in a good mood to take a selfie so i just take a random pic from my folder.
So here we go the blogging challenge. Today is about me, you believe me, talking about your own self is the hardest thing ever. It's like, who am i, i don't know me
Don't bother to read the rest of this post, I'm not even sure that i really have something fun to be wrote as a fact about me. But i asked my friend to help me to find things between all of those mess which i mean is my self so just give it a try, kay
1. I was born 15 years and 2 months ago named Nicole Claudia Fretha and i've been called as Icon for like all of the time in my whole life and it started to sounds weird if someone call me in my real name, Nicole. It started to feels weird and unreal.
2. I have a great big warm lovely family, they are amazing just the way they are and once you get to know them you will find out why i love them all to death, they are so extraordinary in so many ways. Whenever i started to make a new friends i always wonder what would they think about my family, i mean like they are my world, if you don't like them then we are no longer friends kay
3. I am a headstrong. Like a real one. If i said so, then it must be like the way i said it. I hate to confess this thing but it is true.
4. I really talk a lot sometimes and i didn't realized it until my friend give me that, "wow stop it, you talk too much" look, And i be like "it is not me who is talking, there is someone inside me." I don't know i could talk that much sometimes
5. I get panicked easily, so damn easily. 'Keep calm' is just not my thing at all.
6. I am a sarcastic-weirdo. I am so sorry for my sarcasm, i just can't help it sometimes.
7. I'm a sleepyhead. This one is for sure, i could sleep for 10 hours and woke up still tired and go back to sleep again. Doing nothing is like one of my fav daily routine.
8. I love cheese. No, seriously. I put cheese on every food that is possible to eat with cheese on it. Dangerously cheesy is one of the best invention so far
9. I love old songs, oldies. Songs that would made people give me that "wut"-look if i tell them one of the singer.
10. I will be the nicest and the meanest person you ever see in your life. And I'm not holding my words once i assume you as my-weird-bestfriend, i will just let my mouth say it all, you better not get hurts easily. Once again it is not me who's talking, maybe
Okay this is started to feel a little bit harder, i don't know what to write again
11. I love and hate things whole-heartedly. you choose. And I'm that kind who love dogs and hate cats, just in case you wondering.
12. I love small details, and it touches me and makes me happy to see someone remembers a small detail, its like, wow you heard me.
13. If we are best friends we could hangout in silence and I'm all okay with it, as long as I'm with you and you know that i love you, we will be just fine.
14. I don't get mad easily at people. You all have my trusts. Don't broke it. Once i get mad, you will lose it all. And i can't just yell at people, screaming or do something that will hurt people physically, i will just got my heart broken, lose all my respect and burst in tears.
But i laugh so damn loud easily, you believe me. I could laugh at things that has passed like a month and I'm still thinking about it.
15. Im shy as hell at first, and i will just smile and talk slightly, nice-person, well at first, but then you get to know me, i really talk a lot and i might be teasing you to your lowest point and not giving a damn about it.
Am so sorry, this post should be posted yesterday, but my laptop went wrong and got frozen.
Monday, January 13, 2014
10 Blog Challenge
Thinking about do something called 'Blogging Challenge' and i'll just take 10 because of the schoolsucks thingy. So for the next 10 days, i will post things on this blog based on the challenge that has been chosen. You guys should try it and have some fun with writing and blogging
I will start it on tuesday which is tomorrow so kay, here we go
So here is the 10 Day Blog Challenge that has been chosen by me:
1. Put a selfie and write 15 fun-facts about yourself
2. What is the thing that you would never change about yourself?
3. List your favorites
4. What makes you happy and feel better?
5. If you could have dinner with any ten person, who would they be?
6. Something that you miss
7. Your idea of perfect first date/dates
8. Your idea of perfect wedding, every details about it
9. The last time you cried and why?
10. Letter to someone who has hurt you or makes you happy, choose one
I will start it on tuesday which is tomorrow so kay, here we go
So here is the 10 Day Blog Challenge that has been chosen by me:
1. Put a selfie and write 15 fun-facts about yourself
2. What is the thing that you would never change about yourself?
3. List your favorites
4. What makes you happy and feel better?
5. If you could have dinner with any ten person, who would they be?
6. Something that you miss
7. Your idea of perfect first date/dates
8. Your idea of perfect wedding, every details about it
9. The last time you cried and why?
10. Letter to someone who has hurt you or makes you happy, choose one
Sunday, January 12, 2014
The Perks of being an 'Eve'
Let me tell you guys how it really feels if you ever found yourself wondering about being an 'Eve' which means being a girl.
They said if you're living your life in an easy way then you're doing it wrong, and it is not real life if you found it fair. Life is not fair, i don't get it how and why but i think that is how it must be...
Most of us, i mean girls, think about "life would be so much easier if i were a boy" and by most of us i mean is me most of the time.
There's a time when i love being a girl, i really love it like i mean it, so here is the good side of being a girl, believe me:
1. You can do anything you want to do, including get mad for no reason and yell to your boyfriend with an excuse that you're on your pms(pre-menstruate syndrome) or you're on your period-time. Im not saying this is good for everyone but this one saved my life a time or two or maybe eight.
2. We are all made to be loved. Yes, this one is for sure. We are made from Adams' ribs so, we must be something important to be protected, am i right?
3. Having a guy-bestfriend(s). Believe me girls, those kind of friends are the best thing you can get. You can feeling like you are safe, loved, protected and you can still tease them to their lowest point tho and they are not your boyfriend so you can share your embarrassing moments with them, make fun of them, doing crazy stuffs that made you uncontrollably laugh until it embarrass you to hear your own laughter and you can bring them home to get to know with your mom without getting that awkward moment. And you will get LESS DRAMA. I'm telling you girls, less drama, you will have something called peace.
4. Having 'girls best friends' well is the most common thing to be seen or heard. Having a girl-bestfriend is like having a supporter, they will do anything to cheer you up and support you in every step you take. Here is the difference about having a girl and a guy befriend. A girlbf will support me in every step you take, well most of the time, not all of the time and when you failed they will be there to cheer you up, and a guybf will tell you what is right thing to do and what is not. They keep you from failing.
5. You can mix your clothes and look like a careless or effortless fashion sense kind of people or a homeless without being called weird. Fashion is fashion, and girls can wear anything she wanted to and people will not really giving a damn about it.
6. Having babies in our tummy, being a mom and raise our kid, being a superwoman, later in the future. They said it would be the most amazing thing a girl will ever feel. I also think that being a mom would be everything and the best thing for a girl to do.
I want to be my kid's first love<3
Well those six maybe some of the good things, there is more but they are the best. And here is the struggle being a girl, and I-mean-it :
1. We have to deal with all of the useless drama in school about a girl act like a biatch and the other biatch can't handle it, so there you go, and I'm all like, I'm okay with cookies and cream, its a lot more enjoyable that seeing people taking down other people. Just leave me, am alright.
2. Girls cannot eat too much carbs and pizza, or potato chips, and how should i live my life without that kind of thing? A normal shaped girl should be as thin as a paper. And no, I'm not okay with that. Like i said before, i love cookies and cream to death.
3. All we can do is just waiting till the time comes, i mean like, a good guy always choose a wrong girl, well here we go again with the statement that life is unfair as we know it.
4. PMS and period-time. It is the most annoying thing you will ever know and a girl will ever feel.
It feels like your whole body is ruined, even a soft pinch in your hair or skin could make you cry or mad or both. In my case, I'm feeling like every single thing is bothering my life and all i wanna do is screaming at people' face and yell at them, and at the same time i want to hug someone and being loved, protected. It is so complicated and hurts. The period itself, it gets me a back pain, and there is a real pain in my tummy and it feels like a monster is growing in my tummy and it is turning me into a monster either.
And the fear that the blood will soaked is always following me in every step that i take, and it cannot be stopped. So guys, I'm so sorry if you ever get my random-period-attack, it is killing me slowly too
these pic sums up everything:
you guys should understand
5. And we need or have to be nice most of the time. There will always be plenty of rules about how to eat, talk, walk, greet people, smile, i don't know maybe breath, and many stuffs that girls are not allowed to do.
6. We can't just hang with people that we would love to hang with, or talk with, the society will judge us like no matter what. The society be like, "you talk to boys? you are a whore", "you hang with guys? ewh. whore" "you have a guybfriend? you must be in love with him and got friendzoned" "you had too much fun for a girl, bad girl" "you are too nice, don't be naive" "Put some clothes on" "What kind of clothes you're wearing? bedsheets?"
The society never can be pleased.
7. And I'm definitely hate all of those drama-queens that playing a role as a victim to get attention from other people, that is just, ugh. Get a life, girls. And yea, underestimating other girls to be the one is not the way and its not make you any better tho, you look stupid like why aren't you realize that?
To be honest, we, all the girls, we don't want too much from you guys, we just want to feel accepted and sometimes we need to be loved and don't have to fight for it. Just show us your love, we will love you even more. They said, a girl is a reflection of a man's love, if you love us in the right way, we will love you a hundred times more.
Sometimes all we need is just a big warm hug and to be spoiled , and just for your information, if we (girls) get attached to something we don't let go easily, and we love things whole-heartedly so don't be afraid that we could just stop loving you suddenly. We never will.
Because they said that if a man do all the things with her strength of his hand and thoughts, then woman will do all the things with her power of kindness and love.
And please do not ever get tired of us, please be patient and fight for us, once you get us right you will never lose us again, and you will be loved unconditionally.
You guys should really don't mess up with something that could bleed for a week in a month and don't die.
And girls, strong-smart and uncontrollably laughter is the new sexiest thing, believe me, laugh and smile is the best make up that girl could ever wear. Don't let anything get you down.
They said if you're living your life in an easy way then you're doing it wrong, and it is not real life if you found it fair. Life is not fair, i don't get it how and why but i think that is how it must be...
Most of us, i mean girls, think about "life would be so much easier if i were a boy" and by most of us i mean is me most of the time.
There's a time when i love being a girl, i really love it like i mean it, so here is the good side of being a girl, believe me:
1. You can do anything you want to do, including get mad for no reason and yell to your boyfriend with an excuse that you're on your pms(pre-menstruate syndrome) or you're on your period-time. Im not saying this is good for everyone but this one saved my life a time or two or maybe eight.
2. We are all made to be loved. Yes, this one is for sure. We are made from Adams' ribs so, we must be something important to be protected, am i right?
3. Having a guy-bestfriend(s). Believe me girls, those kind of friends are the best thing you can get. You can feeling like you are safe, loved, protected and you can still tease them to their lowest point tho and they are not your boyfriend so you can share your embarrassing moments with them, make fun of them, doing crazy stuffs that made you uncontrollably laugh until it embarrass you to hear your own laughter and you can bring them home to get to know with your mom without getting that awkward moment. And you will get LESS DRAMA. I'm telling you girls, less drama, you will have something called peace.
4. Having 'girls best friends' well is the most common thing to be seen or heard. Having a girl-bestfriend is like having a supporter, they will do anything to cheer you up and support you in every step you take. Here is the difference about having a girl and a guy befriend. A girlbf will support me in every step you take, well most of the time, not all of the time and when you failed they will be there to cheer you up, and a guybf will tell you what is right thing to do and what is not. They keep you from failing.
5. You can mix your clothes and look like a careless or effortless fashion sense kind of people or a homeless without being called weird. Fashion is fashion, and girls can wear anything she wanted to and people will not really giving a damn about it.
6. Having babies in our tummy, being a mom and raise our kid, being a superwoman, later in the future. They said it would be the most amazing thing a girl will ever feel. I also think that being a mom would be everything and the best thing for a girl to do.
I want to be my kid's first love<3
Well those six maybe some of the good things, there is more but they are the best. And here is the struggle being a girl, and I-mean-it :
1. We have to deal with all of the useless drama in school about a girl act like a biatch and the other biatch can't handle it, so there you go, and I'm all like, I'm okay with cookies and cream, its a lot more enjoyable that seeing people taking down other people. Just leave me, am alright.
2. Girls cannot eat too much carbs and pizza, or potato chips, and how should i live my life without that kind of thing? A normal shaped girl should be as thin as a paper. And no, I'm not okay with that. Like i said before, i love cookies and cream to death.
3. All we can do is just waiting till the time comes, i mean like, a good guy always choose a wrong girl, well here we go again with the statement that life is unfair as we know it.
4. PMS and period-time. It is the most annoying thing you will ever know and a girl will ever feel.
It feels like your whole body is ruined, even a soft pinch in your hair or skin could make you cry or mad or both. In my case, I'm feeling like every single thing is bothering my life and all i wanna do is screaming at people' face and yell at them, and at the same time i want to hug someone and being loved, protected. It is so complicated and hurts. The period itself, it gets me a back pain, and there is a real pain in my tummy and it feels like a monster is growing in my tummy and it is turning me into a monster either.
And the fear that the blood will soaked is always following me in every step that i take, and it cannot be stopped. So guys, I'm so sorry if you ever get my random-period-attack, it is killing me slowly too
these pic sums up everything:
you guys should understand
5. And we need or have to be nice most of the time. There will always be plenty of rules about how to eat, talk, walk, greet people, smile, i don't know maybe breath, and many stuffs that girls are not allowed to do.
6. We can't just hang with people that we would love to hang with, or talk with, the society will judge us like no matter what. The society be like, "you talk to boys? you are a whore", "you hang with guys? ewh. whore" "you have a guybfriend? you must be in love with him and got friendzoned" "you had too much fun for a girl, bad girl" "you are too nice, don't be naive" "Put some clothes on" "What kind of clothes you're wearing? bedsheets?"
The society never can be pleased.
7. And I'm definitely hate all of those drama-queens that playing a role as a victim to get attention from other people, that is just, ugh. Get a life, girls. And yea, underestimating other girls to be the one is not the way and its not make you any better tho, you look stupid like why aren't you realize that?
To be honest, we, all the girls, we don't want too much from you guys, we just want to feel accepted and sometimes we need to be loved and don't have to fight for it. Just show us your love, we will love you even more. They said, a girl is a reflection of a man's love, if you love us in the right way, we will love you a hundred times more.
Sometimes all we need is just a big warm hug and to be spoiled , and just for your information, if we (girls) get attached to something we don't let go easily, and we love things whole-heartedly so don't be afraid that we could just stop loving you suddenly. We never will.
Because they said that if a man do all the things with her strength of his hand and thoughts, then woman will do all the things with her power of kindness and love.
And please do not ever get tired of us, please be patient and fight for us, once you get us right you will never lose us again, and you will be loved unconditionally.
You guys should really don't mess up with something that could bleed for a week in a month and don't die.
And girls, strong-smart and uncontrollably laughter is the new sexiest thing, believe me, laugh and smile is the best make up that girl could ever wear. Don't let anything get you down.
Wednesday, January 1, 2014
Greetings
Merry Christmas gals, i know it is late and I'm so sorry, but there is twelve days of christmas, right?
First thing first, the Tiberias Christmas Celebration went so unexpectedly well, and i miss every single moment on that blessed day. I'll do anything to have that kind of day one more time, just once.
The christmasphere was so wonderful-great and amazing at the same time, and it feels so nice to be part of them, to God be all the glory:-) here is some pic of us, i really do enjoy every single moment
And im still on my christmas-break but i didnt post much lately because of many reasons, im so pissed off about everything, and it doesnt even feel like real christmas or new year, but still i know that im blessed.
We celebrate the new years eve, of course we do, but its just feel like nothing. Well, hope you guys enjoyed your new years eve, God Bless 2014.
This year brings me so much hope, let us just hope that 2014 will be as wonderful as the fireworks on new years eve. I believe 2014 will be our year, God will make it happen through His blessings and His way.
So im so ready for whatever 2014 brings
How was your christmas? hope you guys had a wonderful one<3
And of course, HAPPY NEW YEAR! So it is officially 2014. Enough with the "new year new me", im pretty sure this year will be a great one.
So i guess i missed a lot of things, didn't i?
First thing first, the Tiberias Christmas Celebration went so unexpectedly well, and i miss every single moment on that blessed day. I'll do anything to have that kind of day one more time, just once.
The christmasphere was so wonderful-great and amazing at the same time, and it feels so nice to be part of them, to God be all the glory:-) here is some pic of us, i really do enjoy every single moment
And im still on my christmas-break but i didnt post much lately because of many reasons, im so pissed off about everything, and it doesnt even feel like real christmas or new year, but still i know that im blessed.
We celebrate the new years eve, of course we do, but its just feel like nothing. Well, hope you guys enjoyed your new years eve, God Bless 2014.
This year brings me so much hope, let us just hope that 2014 will be as wonderful as the fireworks on new years eve. I believe 2014 will be our year, God will make it happen through His blessings and His way.
So im so ready for whatever 2014 brings
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