They said if you're living your life in an easy way then you're doing it wrong, and it is not real life if you found it fair. Life is not fair, i don't get it how and why but i think that is how it must be...
Most of us, i mean girls, think about "life would be so much easier if i were a boy" and by most of us i mean is me most of the time.
There's a time when i love being a girl, i really love it like i mean it, so here is the good side of being a girl, believe me:
1. You can do anything you want to do, including get mad for no reason and yell to your boyfriend with an excuse that you're on your pms(pre-menstruate syndrome) or you're on your period-time. Im not saying this is good for everyone but this one saved my life a time or two or maybe eight.
2. We are all made to be loved. Yes, this one is for sure. We are made from Adams' ribs so, we must be something important to be protected, am i right?
3. Having a guy-bestfriend(s). Believe me girls, those kind of friends are the best thing you can get. You can feeling like you are safe, loved, protected and you can still tease them to their lowest point tho and they are not your boyfriend so you can share your embarrassing moments with them, make fun of them, doing crazy stuffs that made you uncontrollably laugh until it embarrass you to hear your own laughter and you can bring them home to get to know with your mom without getting that awkward moment. And you will get LESS DRAMA. I'm telling you girls, less drama, you will have something called peace.
4. Having 'girls best friends' well is the most common thing to be seen or heard. Having a girl-bestfriend is like having a supporter, they will do anything to cheer you up and support you in every step you take. Here is the difference about having a girl and a guy befriend. A girlbf will support me in every step you take, well most of the time, not all of the time and when you failed they will be there to cheer you up, and a guybf will tell you what is right thing to do and what is not. They keep you from failing.
5. You can mix your clothes and look like a careless or effortless fashion sense kind of people or a homeless without being called weird. Fashion is fashion, and girls can wear anything she wanted to and people will not really giving a damn about it.
6. Having babies in our tummy, being a mom and raise our kid, being a superwoman, later in the future. They said it would be the most amazing thing a girl will ever feel. I also think that being a mom would be everything and the best thing for a girl to do.
I want to be my kid's first love<3
Well those six maybe some of the good things, there is more but they are the best. And here is the struggle being a girl, and I-mean-it :
1. We have to deal with all of the useless drama in school about a girl act like a biatch and the other biatch can't handle it, so there you go, and I'm all like, I'm okay with cookies and cream, its a lot more enjoyable that seeing people taking down other people. Just leave me, am alright.
2. Girls cannot eat too much carbs and pizza, or potato chips, and how should i live my life without that kind of thing? A normal shaped girl should be as thin as a paper. And no, I'm not okay with that. Like i said before, i love cookies and cream to death.
3. All we can do is just waiting till the time comes, i mean like, a good guy always choose a wrong girl, well here we go again with the statement that life is unfair as we know it.
4. PMS and period-time. It is the most annoying thing you will ever know and a girl will ever feel.
It feels like your whole body is ruined, even a soft pinch in your hair or skin could make you cry or mad or both. In my case, I'm feeling like every single thing is bothering my life and all i wanna do is screaming at people' face and yell at them, and at the same time i want to hug someone and being loved, protected. It is so complicated and hurts. The period itself, it gets me a back pain, and there is a real pain in my tummy and it feels like a monster is growing in my tummy and it is turning me into a monster either.
And the fear that the blood will soaked is always following me in every step that i take, and it cannot be stopped. So guys, I'm so sorry if you ever get my random-period-attack, it is killing me slowly too
these pic sums up everything:
you guys should understand
5. And we need or have to be nice most of the time. There will always be plenty of rules about how to eat, talk, walk, greet people, smile, i don't know maybe breath, and many stuffs that girls are not allowed to do.
6. We can't just hang with people that we would love to hang with, or talk with, the society will judge us like no matter what. The society be like, "you talk to boys? you are a whore", "you hang with guys? ewh. whore" "you have a guybfriend? you must be in love with him and got friendzoned" "you had too much fun for a girl, bad girl" "you are too nice, don't be naive" "Put some clothes on" "What kind of clothes you're wearing? bedsheets?"
The society never can be pleased.
7. And I'm definitely hate all of those drama-queens that playing a role as a victim to get attention from other people, that is just, ugh. Get a life, girls. And yea, underestimating other girls to be the one is not the way and its not make you any better tho, you look stupid like why aren't you realize that?
To be honest, we, all the girls, we don't want too much from you guys, we just want to feel accepted and sometimes we need to be loved and don't have to fight for it. Just show us your love, we will love you even more. They said, a girl is a reflection of a man's love, if you love us in the right way, we will love you a hundred times more.
Sometimes all we need is just a big warm hug and to be spoiled , and just for your information, if we (girls) get attached to something we don't let go easily, and we love things whole-heartedly so don't be afraid that we could just stop loving you suddenly. We never will.
Because they said that if a man do all the things with her strength of his hand and thoughts, then woman will do all the things with her power of kindness and love.
And please do not ever get tired of us, please be patient and fight for us, once you get us right you will never lose us again, and you will be loved unconditionally.
You guys should really don't mess up with something that could bleed for a week in a month and don't die.
And girls, strong-smart and uncontrollably laughter is the new sexiest thing, believe me, laugh and smile is the best make up that girl could ever wear. Don't let anything get you down.
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